Quick answer: To celebrate Valentine's Day safely with your dog, keep chocolate, candy, sugar free gum and anything with xylitol well out of reach, and check bouquets for plants that are toxic to dogs, such as lilies of the valley, tulips and daffodils. Remove rose thorns, ribbons and flower food packets. Share love with dog safe treats, a special walk, a new toy or a cozy photo session instead. If you go out for date night, plan a walk, a food toy and a sitter if you will be gone long. Call your vet or a pet poison hotline right away if your dog eats something dangerous.

Why is Valentine's Day risky for dogs?

Sweets everywhere. Valentine's Day is one of the biggest chocolate and candy days of the year. Boxes of chocolates sit on low tables, candy hearts end up in purses and coat pockets, and kids bring home bags of treats from school. Dogs have a powerful nose and can sniff out sweets wrapped in paper, foil or plastic, even inside a closed bag.

Gifts that look like toys. Flowers, ribbons, balloons, stuffed animals and wrapping paper can all look like fun things to chew. Some are toxic, some can cause choking and others can get stuck in the gut. A dog who is bored or left alone with a pile of gifts may treat them as a new toy box.

Busy, distracted humans. Date nights, dinners out, guests and parties can change your dog's normal routine. When you are getting ready or entertaining, it is easy to leave a gift box within reach or forget a walk. Our guide on building a daily routine for your dog explains why routine helps dogs feel secure.

Winter extras. Mid February is still cold in many places. Ice melt, antifreeze and early dark evenings bring their own risks on Valentine's walks. Our guide on winter toxins for dogs lists what to watch for outside, and our walking in the dark guide covers safe evening walks.

Which Valentine's candy is dangerous for dogs?

Chocolate. Chocolate contains theobromine and caffeine, which dogs cannot process well. Dark chocolate and baking chocolate are the most dangerous, but milk chocolate can still cause problems, especially for small dogs. Signs include vomiting, diarrhea, restlessness, a fast heartbeat, shaking and, in severe cases, seizures. Our guide on what to do if your dog ate chocolate explains the next steps.

Xylitol. Xylitol is a sugar substitute found in some sugar free candy, gum, mints, baked goods and even some peanut butters. In dogs, it can cause a sudden and dangerous drop in blood sugar and may lead to liver damage. Always read labels, and keep purses and coat pockets with gum or mints off the floor.

Candy hearts and hard candy. Regular sugar candy is not toxic in the same way, but large amounts can upset your dog's stomach and some candies are a choking risk. Lollipop sticks can also cause blockages or injuries if swallowed.

Raisins and chocolate covered fruit. Chocolate covered raisins combine two dangers, since raisins and grapes can cause kidney failure in dogs. Chocolate covered nuts, such as macadamia nuts, can also be harmful. Keep all mixed candy boxes and trail mixes well out of reach.

Are wrappers, ribbons and balloons dangerous?

Wrappers and foil. Dogs often eat chocolate wrappers and foil along with the candy. Foil and plastic can cause stomach upset and, in larger amounts, a blockage. Throw wrappers straight into a lidded trash can rather than leaving them on the table or couch.

Ribbons, string and bows. Long, thin items like ribbon, curling string and tinsel can become a linear foreign body, which means they can get stuck and bunch up the intestines. This is a surgical emergency. Our guide on what to do if your dog ate a sock explains the signs of a blockage.

Balloons. Popped balloon pieces and the ribbons attached to them are easy to swallow. Helium balloons can also frighten some dogs when they float, move or pop. Keep balloons in rooms your dog cannot reach and throw away any that deflate.

Stuffed animals and gift toys. Plush toys made for people are not built for chewing. They may have small plastic eyes, buttons, beads or stuffing that can cause choking or blockages. Give your dog toys made for dogs, and always supervise them with a new toy at first.

Which Valentine's flowers are toxic to dogs?

Roses are generally safe, but watch the thorns. Roses are not considered toxic to dogs, though eating petals may cause a mild upset stomach. The bigger risk is thorns, which can hurt your dog's mouth, paws or gut. Remove thorns before you bring roses home, and sweep up fallen petals and leaves.

Plants to keep away. Lily of the valley is very toxic to dogs and can affect the heart. Tulips and daffodils, especially the bulbs, can cause vomiting, drooling and diarrhea. Chrysanthemums, carnations, baby's breath and some greenery can cause stomach upset. Check the ASPCA plant list for anything in your bouquet.

Lilies and cats. True lilies, such as Easter lilies and stargazer lilies, are deadly to cats even in tiny amounts. They are less dangerous for dogs but can still cause stomach upset. If you share your home with cats as well as dogs, it is best to avoid lilies completely.

Flower food and vase water. The small packets of flower food that come with bouquets can upset your dog's stomach, and vase water may contain bacteria or plant chemicals. Keep vases on high, stable surfaces where they cannot be knocked over. Our guide on holiday plants toxic to dogs has more plant safety tips.

How do I keep my home safe on Valentine's Day?

Make a high shelf the gift spot. Choose one high shelf or a closed cupboard for chocolates, candy and gifts. Tell your partner, kids and guests where it is, so treats do not end up on low tables, nightstands or the floor.

Bag checks. Purses, backpacks and coat pockets often hold candy, gum and mints. Hang bags on hooks, put coats in a closet and ask guests to do the same. Many dogs learn quickly that bags can hold treats.

Clean up quickly. After opening gifts, gather wrapping paper, ribbons, foil and boxes right away. Do a quick check of the floor, couch and coffee table before you leave your dog alone in the room.

Candles and decor. Candles are popular for romantic dinners, but wagging tails and curious noses can knock them over. Use flameless candles or keep real ones on high surfaces and never leave them burning alone. Keep rose petal decorations off the floor and bed if your dog likes to snack on them.

What Valentine's treats can my dog have?

Plain, dog safe foods. Small amounts of plain cooked chicken, plain cooked sweet potato, strawberries cut into small pieces, blueberries, plain pumpkin and apple slices without seeds are safe for most dogs. Strawberries are a fun red treat that fits the theme, but keep portions small.

Heart shaped homemade treats. You can bake simple dog treats with oat flour, plain pumpkin and an egg, then cut them with a heart shaped cookie cutter. Our guide on homemade dog treats has easy recipes you can adapt for Valentine's Day. Always check that your peanut butter does not contain xylitol.

Frozen treat hearts. Fill a heart shaped silicone mold with plain yogurt, a little mashed banana or pumpkin and freeze. These make a cool, sweet snack. Plain yogurt can upset some dogs' stomachs, so start with a small amount.

Keep it in balance. Treats should make up no more than about ten percent of your dog's daily calories. If your dog has allergies, a sensitive stomach or a health condition, stick to their usual treats or ask your vet first. Our guide on holiday weight gain in dogs has tips on treat portions.

What are good Valentine's gifts for my dog?

A new toy. Pick a toy made for dogs and sized for your dog, such as a sturdy rubber chew, a puzzle feeder or a plush toy designed for gentle play. Puzzle toys give your dog a fun challenge. Our guide on brain games for dogs has ideas.

A cozy upgrade. A soft new blanket or a comfortable bed is a gift your dog will use every day, especially in the cold weeks of February. Our guide on choosing the right dog bed can help you pick one.

Something to wear. A red or pink bandana with hearts is a simple, comfortable way to dress up for photos. Make sure it fits loosely, with room for two fingers underneath, and take it off if your dog seems unhappy. Our matching outfits guide has fit tips.

Your time. For most dogs, the best gift is time with you. A long sniffy walk, a play session, a trip to a dog friendly cafe or simply an afternoon cuddled on the couch can mean more than anything you buy.

Sweet ways to celebrate Valentine's Day with your dog

Take a special walk. Go somewhere new, like a quiet trail, a park or a dog friendly beach. Let your dog sniff as much as they like. Sniffing is calming and fun for dogs, and a new place gives them lots to explore. Dress for the weather and check our guide on how cold is too cold for dogs.

Have a photo session. Set up a cozy corner with a blanket, a few hearts and good window light. Take photos when your dog is relaxed, and use treats to get their attention. Our guide on holiday photos with your dog has tips that work for any occasion.

Learn a new trick together. Teach your dog a sweet trick, like a paw shake, a high five or a gentle kiss on cue. Training builds your bond and keeps their brain busy. Our guide on easy dog tricks to teach has step by step instructions.

Plan a pup date. Invite a dog friend your dog already knows and likes for a play session or walk. Keep it small and calm, and watch body language so both dogs have fun.

How do I care for my dog on date night?

Walk and feed before you go. A long walk and a normal meal before you head out help your dog settle and rest while you are away. A tired dog is much less likely to go looking for trouble.

Leave a food toy. A stuffed food toy or a long lasting chew gives your dog something calm and rewarding to do. Give it as you leave so your dog links your departure with something good. Our guide on helping a dog with separation anxiety explains more about calm goodbyes.

Dog proof before you leave. Put away gifts, chocolates, flowers and candles, close doors to rooms with hazards and take out the trash. Many Valentine's emergencies happen when dogs are home alone with a box of chocolates.

Arrange care for long evenings. If you will be gone longer than your dog can comfortably wait, book a dog walker, a pet sitter or a friend to check in. Our guide on choosing doggy daycare or a dog walker explains what to look for.

Can my dog join a romantic night in?

Yes, with a few rules. Many couples love a night in with their dog. Set up dinner at a table your dog cannot reach, and give your dog their own dinner or a chew at the same time so they are not begging.

Keep people food on your plates. Romantic dinners often include rich foods like steak with garlic butter, creamy pasta, chocolate desserts and wine. Many of these are fatty, contain onion or garlic or are toxic for dogs. Our guide on holiday foods dogs can and can't eat lists the safe and unsafe options.

Watch the wine and cocktails. Alcohol is dangerous for dogs even in small amounts. Keep glasses on high surfaces, never leave them on the floor next to the couch and clean up spills quickly.

Give your dog a cozy spot. A bed or blanket near you lets your dog feel included without being underfoot. Some dogs love to snuggle on the couch for a movie. Our guide on whether your dog should sleep in your bed covers sharing your space.

How do I introduce a new partner to my dog?

Go slow. Some dogs warm up to new people right away, while others need time. Let your dog approach your partner when they are ready. Ask your partner to stay calm, avoid leaning over your dog and let your dog sniff first.

Use treats and walks. Have your partner offer a few of your dog's favorite treats or join you for a walk. Walking side by side is a relaxed way for dogs to get to know someone without pressure.

Watch for stress signs. Lip licking, yawning, turning away, a tucked tail or hiding can mean your dog feels unsure. Give them space and try again another day. Our guide on holiday guests and your dog explains how to read your dog's comfort level.

Keep routines steady. If a new partner is spending more time at your home, keep your dog's walks, meals and bedtime the same. Changes in the household can be stressful, and routine helps your dog feel safe.

Ideas for a Galentine's or friends' gathering with dogs

Host a dog friendly brunch. Invite friends and their dogs who already get along. Set out a water station, a few dog beds and a bowl of dog safe treats. Keep people food on high tables and ask everyone not to feed the dogs from their plates.

Plan a group walk. A group walk at a park or trail is a fun, low stress way to celebrate together. Keep dogs on leash unless you are in a safe, fenced area, and give each dog enough space.

Make a treat swap. Ask each friend to bring a small batch of homemade dog treats with the ingredients listed. Everyone goes home with a variety of goodies. Double check that no treats contain chocolate, raisins, xylitol, onion or garlic.

Celebrate single dog parents. Valentine's Day is not just for couples. Spending the day with your dog is a celebration of one of the most loyal relationships there is. Our guide on hosting a dog friendly holiday party has more party tips.

What should I do if my dog eats chocolate or flowers?

Act fast. If you think your dog ate chocolate, sugar free candy, raisins, a toxic plant, ribbon or a wrapper, call your vet or an emergency clinic right away. Do not wait for signs to appear. Note what your dog ate, how much and when, and keep the packaging to share with your vet.

Call a pet poison hotline. The ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center and Pet Poison Helpline can give expert advice 24 hours a day. A fee may apply. Save both numbers in your phone and on the fridge.

Do not make your dog vomit at home. Unless your vet or a poison hotline tells you to, do not try to make your dog vomit. Some items, like ribbons, thorns and foil, can cause more harm coming back up.

Know the signs. Call your vet if your dog vomits, has diarrhea, drools, seems restless, shaky or very tired, has a painful belly, is breathing fast or stops eating. Our guide on dog upset stomach explains more about tummy troubles.

• Chocolate and xylitol are the biggest Valentine's dangers.
• Check every bouquet for toxic plants and thorns.
• Ribbons and wrappers can cause blockages.
• Dog safe treats are the sweetest gift.
• Plan date night care before you head out.

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Can dogs eat Valentine's chocolate?

No. Chocolate is toxic to dogs. Dark and baking chocolate are the most dangerous, but milk chocolate can also cause vomiting, restlessness and a fast heartbeat.

Are roses poisonous to dogs?

Roses are not considered toxic to dogs, but thorns can injure the mouth and gut. Eating petals may cause a mild upset stomach.

Which flowers are toxic to dogs?

Lily of the valley, tulips, daffodils and some chrysanthemums and carnations can be harmful. Check every bouquet against the ASPCA plant list.

Can dogs eat candy hearts?

They are not a good choice. Sugar candy can upset the stomach, and sugar free candy may contain xylitol, which is very dangerous for dogs.

Can dogs eat strawberries?

Yes, in small amounts. Wash them, remove the stem and cut them into small pieces. They make a fun red treat for Valentine's Day.

My dog ate a chocolate wrapper. What should I do?

Call your vet for advice, especially if chocolate was inside. Watch for vomiting, not eating, a painful belly or straining to poop.

What is a good Valentine's gift for my dog?

A dog safe toy, a puzzle feeder, a cozy blanket or bed, a heart bandana or simply a long walk and extra time together.

How do I keep my dog calm on date night?

Walk and feed your dog before you leave, give them a food toy as you go and book a sitter or walker if you will be gone a long time.

Is xylitol in peanut butter dangerous?

Yes. Some peanut butters contain xylitol, which can cause low blood sugar and liver damage in dogs. Always read the label before sharing.

Can my dog drink wine or champagne?

No. Alcohol is dangerous for dogs even in small amounts. Keep glasses out of reach and call your vet right away if your dog drinks any.